Netherlands Decoration of Merit of the Minister of Defense in Gold

In 1987 the Medal for Merit of The Minister of Defence of the Netherlands was instituted. The medal can be awarded both to civilains and military. This medal can be issued in gold, silver and bronze. The purpose of the medal is to award those who have shown:

* Outstanding achivements of incidental nature for the Ministry of Defence
* Individual courage in life-threatening situations
* Courageous conduct during peacekeeping operations in time of peace
* For special merit of Dutch and foreign civil and military authorities

The design of the medal is strikening: It has the form of a bastion. On the observe the logos of Navy, Army and Air Force, surrounded by a blue castle moat. On the reserve the text “Minister van Defensie (Minister of Defence) sorrounded by “Koninkrijk der Nederlanden (Kingdom of the Netherlands). The medal is only awarded a few times a year.

DVIDS
By Army Staff Sgt. Patrick N. Moes, 40th Public Affairs Detachment

A 4th Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne Division Soldier was honored Wednesday at the hallowed grounds of Arlington National Cemetery where veterans from wars past and present are entombed.

Sgt. Alexander Van Aalten, an infantryman with the “All American” division, was posthumously presented the Netherlands Decoration of Merit of the Minister of Defense in Gold before the Van Aalten family and members of the division. Dutch Minister of Defense Eimert Van Middelkoop presented the award to Van Aalten’s wife – Shana, inside the museum where the names of valiant Soldiers of the past are scribed on the walls for history.

“Here we remember the brave Sgt. Alexander Van Aalten, who gave his life in Afghanistan serving his country, striving for peace and helping his Dutch colleagues,” said Van Middelkoop.

Van Aalten, a Cookeville, Tenn., native was attempting to recover a Dutch soldier who died in a mine field on April 20, where he also would suffer that same fate.

“Two brave young Soldiers – one Dutch and one American with Dutch ancestors – had (laid) down their lives for their country, for our freedom,” said Van Middelkoop, who also placed a wreath before the Tomb of the Unknowns.

“(Van Aalten) did not think twice about his actions,” said 82nd Airborne Division Command Sgt. Maj. (rear) Arthur L. Coleman. “He was executing what he was trained to do.”

The training and commitment of paratroopers to look out for others is reflected in Van Aalten’s actions, added Coleman. “He edifies the paratroopers’ code.”

This code or creed affirms a paratrooper comes from a volunteer force that will persevere in the face of adversity and accomplish any mission regardless of obstacles or dangers.

It is within this code that paratroopers find the loyalty to continue to honor the families of fallen Soldiers.

“We are committed to taking care of Soldiers and families,” said Coleman. “We want to make (the families) still feel like they are a part of the division even though they have lost (their loved one) and (the division) has lost a great Soldier.

Van Middelkoop concluded the ceremony by saying “we owe Alex Van Aalten much, but first of all we owe him a promise: just as he did not forget his fallen Dutch brother in arms, we must never forget as well.”

Netherlands Consulate-General - New York, New York
Mrs Van Aalten, Distinguished guests, ladies and gentlemen

I just had the honour to pay the respect of the people of the Kingdom of The Netherlands to the sacrifice of American heroes in foreign wars, by placing a wreath before the Tomb. It is here at Arlington where we are gathered today to remember those who served, those who fought, and those who gave their lives for freedom.

It is here at Arlington that we remember those heroes and pray that no other heroes will ever have to die for us again. Here we dwell for the valor of others, here we honor the brave who rest in this cemetery and throughout the world.

It is here that my thoughts and prayers are foremost with you, Mrs Van Aalten. Here we remember your husband, the brave sergeant Alexander van Aalten, who gave his life in Afghanistan serving his country, striving for peace and helping his Dutch colleagues.

Alex van Aalten was a fine and although just twenty-one, a very experienced soldier. After his tour in Iraq he was deployed in Afghanistan as a sergeant with the 82nd Airborne 1-508 Parachute Infantry Regiment Delta Company. The famous Regiment that played a heroic part in the liberation of my country from World War II.

Van Aalten and his Dutch and British brothers in arms were involved in heavy and fierce fighting in operation Achilles. Their duty around Sangin was successful and coming to an end, when they were overtaken by disaster. Corporal Cor Strik from the Dutch Tiger Company stepped on a mine. The unit was in shock, it was their last day in the field. Van Aalten didn’t hesitate and took two men to recover the body of his Dutch comrade. They did so. Just before they reached their unit again Alex also stepped on a mine. Two brave young soldiers – one Dutch and one American with Dutch ancestors – had lay down their lives for their country, for our freedom.

Two young lives taken in a country far away. Van Aalten loved his wife, his parents, his sister, his brother, his colleagues, his country and the Lord. He will be missed deeply. We are greatly indebted by his courage. We owe Alex van Aalten much, but first of all, we owe him a promise: Just as he did not forget his fallen Dutch brother in arms, we must never forget as well.

Here at Arlington we etch those promises in our hearts. We must always remember that peace is fragile, that peace needs constant vigilance. We owe brave soldiers like Alex van Aalten and Cor Strik to look at the world with a steady gaze and, if needed, toughness, knowing that we have challenges and opponents in this world. The only way to meet them and to meet the peace is by staying strong. With our actions we must strive to keep faith with them and with the vision that led them to battle and to final sacrifice.

Mrs Van Aalten, ladies and gentlemen, allow me a prayer.

*The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. In verdant pastures he gives me repose;
Beside restful waters he leads me; he refreshes my soul.
He guides me in right paths for his name’s sake.
Even though I walk in the dark valley I fear no evil; for you are at my side
With your rod and your staff that give me courage.
You spread the table before me in the sight of my foes;
You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
Only goodness and kindness follow me all the days of my life;
And I shall dwell in the house of the LORD for years to come.

Thank you, I give the floor to my aide de camp, who will read the order for the military honor.

Herald-Citizen
The family of van Aalten was notified last Friday that he had been killed in Afghanistan after stepping on a mine.

Van Aalten’s tour to Afghanistan was his second overseas tour of duty since he joined the U.S. Army in June 2004, upon graduating from Cookeville High School.

His first tour was in Iraq in 2005, where he was a gunner on a humvee whose main objective was to run the terrorists out of town so the citizens could vote.

At the time of van Aalten’s death he was a sergeant with the 82nd Airborne 1-508 PIR (Parachute Infantry Regiment) Delta Company at Fort Bragg, North Carolina.

Van Aalten was born Sept. 2, 1985, in Orlando, Fla., to Edward “Ed” and Susan Stokes van Aalten of Monterey.

In addition to his parents, Van Aalten is survived by his wife, Shana Sorrell van Aalten, whom he married May 28, 2005; a brother, Dax van Aalten of New York, New York; a sister, Cpl. Nicole van Aalten of El Paso, Texas; a maternal grandfather, Herman Stokes of Monterey; paternal grandmother, Willa van Aalten of Brandon, Fla.; father-in-law, David (Kellie) Sorrell; and mother-in-law Connie (Tim) Stinson of Sparta.

He was preceded in death by his maternal grandmother, Ella May Fowler Stokes and a paternal grandfather, Edward van Aalten Sr.

Pallbearers at van Aalten’s funeral service on Sunday will be members of the 82nd Airborne Honor Guard.

A memorial fund in the name of Sgt. Alexander van Aalten has been established at U.S. Bank.